O son, ponder over this lesson I picked up from Ustaz Shamsul's tawsiyah today. He said:
"You can't hurry love. You think you can simply love Allah, that you can love Him instantaneously just like that, no you can't. You must first be obedient to Him. One who is disobedient does not fear Him. One who is not fearful of Allah cannot claim to have loved Him. So beware of people who profess to love Him yet does not obey Him."
May Allah makes us fearful of Him. He said in the Qur'an: "And fear Allah, and Allah will teach you." May He teaches us the right way to love Him and preserve us in His love. Ameen Ya Hannan Ya Manan.