On this blessed night of Nisfu Shaaban I cannot possibly quote anything better than this advice offered by our Qurratu Ain - Shaykh Dr Muhammad Al Ninowy:
"Allah is more just than you can ever be. Drop the grudge in your heart. Allah will take your right for you. But don't hate. Don't turn your heart into a garbage of hatred. Your heart is supposed to be filled with love, not hate! Because hate will consume you!"
"Because today we are talking about Laylatun Nisfi - Shaaban specifically. If you are exposed to the mercies of Allah on that night, you will be granted forgiveness. Can you believe it? Forgiveness!"
May we be exposed to the mercies of Allah. May we belong with those lucky souls who win His forgiveness. His forgiveness is all that matters. We should not care too much about anything else. Everything else is petty, is negligible as compared to the gift of His forgiveness.
So, rejoice : )