O son, I am still perplexed that there are men who have the nerve to say: "Oh I am attracted to what you are sharing on your blog. I am a spiritual person. I have done this, donated that..." And later said, "Come, let's go spend some time together in private."
How rude is that? This is what Shaykh Abdul Qadir al-Jilani has to say to these shayatin disguised as man. And I seek the barakah of Shaykh Abdul Qadir al-Jilani so that Allah will protect me and all women, from animalistic men.
"O wretched failure, if you had any light in your heart you would be able to distinguish between what is unlawful (haram), what is legally dubious (shuhba) and what is indifferently permissible (mubah); between that which blackens your heart and that which illuminates it; between that which brings your heart near (to your Lord), and that which keeps it at a distance."
But how can you have light in your heart if you avoid the company of shuyukh? You think you are good on your own. Fine! Just don't bother other people who are trying to be a good person, who are trying to purify themselves. A'uzubillahi minas syaitan ni rajim!